A consent form asks a parent to tick a box. A consent policy tells the parent — and every teacher — exactly what that box permits, what it forbids, how to change their mind, and what happens to the photos afterwards. Without the policy, the form is a liability dressed as protection.

Below is a structure that works across daycares, preschools, nurseries, kindergartens and K-12 schools, with regional notes. Copy it, delete what doesn't apply, and make the language yours.

Section 1: Purpose

“We photograph and film children to share their learning with their own families, to document development, and — only with separate permission — to tell the story of our school publicly. This policy explains how we do that safely.”

Section 2: Definitions (the part most policies skip)

  • Family-only sharing — a photo or video shown only to the child's own parents or guardians through the school's approved channel.
  • Group sharing — content shown to the families of other children who appear in the same photo.
  • Public use — website, social media, prospectus, press, or any audience outside enrolled families.
  • Documentation — use for assessment, learning journals, portfolios or inspection evidence, not shared beyond staff and the child's family.
  • Approved channel — the specific app or system the school has vetted (for example Oyku), as distinct from personal phones, WhatsApp groups or personal social media.

Offer parents separate, independent choices rather than one blanket box. Most families say yes to family-only sharing and are far more cautious about public use; a single tick-box forces them to refuse everything or accept everything.

  1. 1Tier A — Family-only: I consent to photos/videos of my child being shared with me through the approved channel.
  2. 2Tier B — Group: I consent to my child appearing in group photos shared with other families in the same class.
  3. 3Tier C — Public: I consent to my child's image being used on the school website and social media (specify platforms).
  4. 4Tier D — Print & press: I consent to use in printed materials and local media.

State clearly that Tier A alone is a complete, respected choice, and that a child with only Tier A still receives their own moments privately.

Section 4: Opt-out and the ‘impossible by design’ rule

The strongest sentence in any consent policy: ‘Consent status is recorded on each child's profile in our approved system, which prevents sharing beyond the consented tier.’ Consent that lives in a spreadsheet and a teacher's memory will fail on a busy Friday. Consent that the software enforces will not. If your current tool can't do this, that's a buying criterion — see how to choose a daycare app.

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A group photo should be shareable to exactly the families whose children have group consent — automatically.

Section 5: Withdrawal

“You may change or withdraw consent at any time by [method]. We will apply the change within [2 school days] to future sharing, and will remove existing public content featuring your child within [10 school days]. Family-only content already delivered to you remains yours.”

Section 6: What we never photograph

  • Toileting, changing, or any state of undress
  • Children in distress or conflict without resolution
  • Any child who asks not to be photographed, regardless of consent status
  • Children whose consent status is unknown (new starters before forms are returned)
  • Medical or safeguarding situations

Section 7: Devices and channels

“Staff may only capture children's images using [school devices / the approved app on personal devices, which stores nothing locally]. Staff may not share children's images through personal messaging apps, personal social media or personal cloud storage. Group chats with parents are not permitted.”

Section 8: Approval

“All photos and videos are reviewed and approved by [role] before they are visible to any parent. Public use requires additional approval by [role] and Tier C consent for every identifiable child.”

Section 9: Retention and deletion

“Family-only content is retained in the approved system for [the duration of enrolment plus X months], after which it is deleted from our systems; families may export their own child's content at any time. Public content is reviewed annually and removed on request or when the child leaves.”

Section 10: Third-party apps

Name the vendor. State what data they hold, where, under what agreement, and link to their trust documentation. Parents are entitled to know that ‘the app’ has a name and a contract. For Oyku, that page is our Trust Center.

Regional notes

United States (COPPA, FERPA, state law)

  • FERPA: photos can be ‘directory information’ that parents may opt out of sharing; your policy should reference the school's directory-information notice and opt-out process.
  • COPPA: applies to online services collecting personal information from children under 13. Tools with no child accounts (children never log in) sit in a simpler position; the school remains the party controlling consent. The FTC's amended COPPA rule reached its compliance date in April 2026 and tightened requirements for disclosures to third parties — check your vendor's stance.
  • State laws: several states add student-privacy statutes and biometric restrictions (e.g. facial recognition). If your tool offers face-matching, treat it as a separate, explicit consent.

United Kingdom (UK GDPR, DPA 2018, ICO guidance)

  • Photos of identifiable children are personal data. Identify your lawful basis (consent for sharing/public use is the norm; documentation may rest on public task or legitimate interests depending on setting type).
  • Consent must be specific, informed, freely given and as easy to withdraw as to give — tiers, not a blanket box.
  • Put a data-processing agreement in place with any app vendor and record it in your ROPA.
  • Ofsted expects to see partnership with parents and safeguarding around images; a timestamped, approved record helps.

European Union (GDPR)

  • Same principles as UK GDPR. Some member states and municipalities (notably in the Nordics and DACH) apply stricter norms on public images of children; default public sharing to off.
  • Consider a DPIA for any new photo-sharing system in a setting with many children.
  • Your vendor must offer an Art. 28 data-processing agreement (Germany: AVV) and, ideally, EU hosting.

UAE, India and Asia-Pacific

  • UAE PDPL and India's DPDP Act both treat children's data with heightened care; verifiable parental consent is the safe default.
  • Regulators such as KHDA and ADEK look for evidence of parent engagement and safeguarding; approved, timestamped sharing supports both.
Policy completeness check
  • ✓Separate consent tiers (family / group / public / print)
  • ✓Consent recorded per child and enforced by the system
  • ✓Clear withdrawal method and timelines
  • ✓Never-photograph list
  • ✓Approved devices and channels only; no group chats
  • ✓Approval step before any parent sees content
  • ✓Retention, deletion and export terms
  • ✓Vendor named, DPA in place, trust page linked
  • ✓Annual review date
See it live

Consent that enforces itself

Oyku records consent per child and applies it automatically to feeds, group photos and public content. See it on a 20-minute call.